Sunday, May 31, 2009

Bless his beautiful hide...

I think I realized why I haven't been posting. Every time I think of something to post, it occurs to me that people are waiting to READ it! You know, the things I think about posting are just the musings you guys are already tired of hearing from me anyway. All I'm going to do is think about relationships. I'm a relational gal, with one very important relationship in mind pretty much all the time. Healthy? Maybe not. But that's maybe the way it is right now.
Here's my revelation/theory for the day:
I've always thought that men should be the pursuer in the relationship. Why is that? I mean, this is 2009! Go get what you want, right ladies? It's true that I'm completely terrified of rejection, but maybe it's more than that. If a man is not even going to pursue me, what kind of leader is he going to be in the relationship to follow? I need a leader. Believe me. I can't make a decision to save my life, so he's going to have to do it. (Exaggerating a little, obviously.) (Look! I shouldn't have to put disclaimers on my own blog! This is MY blog! If you are reading this you should know me well enough!)
Is pursuer a word? It looks funny.
That's all.
Goodnight.